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  • Features
    Time Out New York / Issue 627 : Oct 4–10, 2007
    The Sex issue

    I want to…cheat on my wife

    By As told to TONY

    We worked at the same company. We flirted. And we both wanted to get together, even though we’d both been married for years. And so it just started.

    The first time, it was supersensational—I was like, Omigod. We went to a motel. She suggested the place. I was scared. I thought Cheaters was going to come in with a camera. But there she was—and things started happening. And I thought, Holy shit, I’m inside another pussy. The nice thing was, I didn’t have to wear a condom or anything because she was fixed.

    There was a level of fear of getting caught. But then things got easier. She worked in a different branch about 55 minutes away. I saw her once every two months for two years.

    The sex was always awesome. I could fuck her so long that I actually developed a callus on the head of my penis. She was always ready—I’d talk to her and her panties would get wet. And she’s 41, I’m 34. We used to joke around, “You’re seducing me, Mrs. Robinson.”

    Then she started planning family events to have me there. Our families ended up spending New Year’s Eve together. We were pretty deep in the shit, you know? We did it once when everybody—even my son—was upstairs. Passion. We went to the basement, and ended up doing it quick, doggy style, and I was done. If I got caught, it’d be over. It was heart-pounding.

    I didn’t look for these problems. I love my wife: She’s my life partner and the mother of my child. But she doesn’t suck my dick. She doesn’t do anything for me sexually. It’s never exciting. When she gets excited, she moves with the rhythm of my body, and therefore my penis isn’t going in or out. I’m like, “What are you doing? You’re killing it.”

    I’ve tried to talk to her about it, like, six times. Then I thought, You know what? I need a service that’s no longer being provided, so I outsourced it.

    But then Joanna started getting stupid. Sending me shit on MySpace. And two months ago, her husband found out, and he stopped by my job and was like, “I don’t want you to talk to her.” I miss her, but she had four kids anyway.

    Just so you know, I am on the phone in my house, on the landline. One second. [Holds the phone away] What’s what, honey? No, I haven’t seen your papers. [Back into the phone] Okay, she’s gone. What was I saying? I’m a horny bastard, is all.


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    • 47831 Chris Tue, Oct 07, at 12:50am
      This is what terrifies me about getting married. What's the point of getting married if you're not going to work to maintain it?

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    • 43661 Jen Darling Wed, Sep 24, at 12:15pm
      Why would you do something that you most likely wouldn't want done to yourself? Marriage DOES have a purpose; it is a commitment between 2 people, NOT 2 people w/ a side of selfishness. It started with YOU not making the right decision to make sure your partner had what you needed before getting married. Now you are using her as an excuse for your misuse of trust. This goes deeper than the damage it is doing to your wife, this has an effect on your son, other people in your life & ultimately YOU

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    • 5474 Some Random Guy Mon, Apr 14, at 02:54pm
      Now, I say to tell her about it, because if you do it without her knowledge, then it it -will be- cheating. If she knows about it, then it will not. She knows about it. It's not something you're hiding from her, you don't have shame, she doesn't feel hurt. The marriage remains as a bond between two people that love each other. You're simply just seeking out what your marriage lacks -- Sex... And that's all that you have with the other woman.. Sex. Not love. Just sex.

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    • 5472 Some Random Guy Mon, Apr 14, at 12:50pm
      Well, here is what I think; If your marriage is crumbling because you are lacking sexual activity, then you should be able to seek it and it not ruin the relationship. If she knows about your affairs, and is fine with them, that is. Don't go behind her back, as that may ruin the relationship, but come to her and tell her that you want to stay married as a couple, but get the sexual attention that you need, because she's not giving it to you.

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    • 5069 Me Thu, Apr 03, at 09:07am
      ...and cheat on him with the poolboy. ;)

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    • 5068 Me Thu, Apr 03, at 07:06am
      Really? No one is going to point out the fact that he had UNPROTECTED sex with this skank and could have brought something home to his loving wife? This is why so many women use men for money... because you're all fucking pigs anyway, why not marry a rich pig?

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    • 4967 JRSR Mon, Mar 31, at 03:40pm
      wow what happened to this world? its so simple, cheating is WRONG, i am a man and i find it hard to cheat bc it s immoral and i would NEVER want to hurt my women or family or go against someone whom you all have forgotten about (its GOD by the way) this world we live in is crumbling in front of my eyes, i never knew how opened people were to adultery. i dreamed a dream that was not so, my eyes were closed and now they are opened to this F'ed up world that we live in.

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    • 4966 apc Mon, Mar 31, at 01:21pm
      if my husband needs to go outside of our marriage to feel sexually satisfied, then do it and never let me find out. if he starts to feel guilty then that's his problem and don't make it mine. if he feels so guilty about it then he should stop, simple as that. we cannot expect perfection in every facet of our lives. if we have everything else in a marriage but nothing left in the bedroom...that one detail seems a worthy sacrifice for all else.

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    • 4965 apc Mon, Mar 31, at 01:17pm
      I can understand this. I acknowledge as a wife there are things that I have conditioned myself not to do; and while it would shatter any confidence i might have in myself; if there is something in my marriage that lacks, i think it should be sought after.

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    • 4385 Chris Tue, Mar 18, at 12:22pm
      (damn...hit Enter too early....) As I was saying below, as a slut myself, it would be hypocritical for me to moralize, but I'd at least like to throw out some suggested reading for any other sluts out there who are tempted to make the unethical choice: The Ethical Slut, by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt. There are a lot of us sluts out there, and it's time we stopped hiding it for shame!

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    • 4383 Chris Tue, Mar 18, at 12:19pm
      I also feel for you, Tony, but that doesn't excuse your choices. You've behaved like an unethical slut. As a slut myself,

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    • 470 Les Sat, Mar 08, at 11:58am
      i totally feel you guys. Good on you for finally finding one another. The thing is, you must never get it twisted, and think he or she is the one, cause i don't think they are. Its just very risky. It works, and it rocks. Loving it....

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    • 1353 Marvin Sat, Oct 13, 07, at 5:31pm
      I understand, Tony. I love my wife too, but she has turned into a Nun, you know? I've just not be fortunate enough to find a "friend with benefits" is all. If any ladies read this and are interested.....mail me MMarquisDeSade at aol.

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